the holidays, again

Of course it's the holidays again.  I'm not sure if last year I was better prepared or if I was still a bit numb.... but this year, these last few weeks have been tough.  I know I should be grateful for what I have but it's hard when you know what you don't have.... and the holidays, well they certainly bring back the memories of good times.  No matter what age, the holidays were usually the times when time was spent with family... and so many years of happy, mostly, memories and traditions.

Now I feel a bit adrift.  I think a lot of us feel a bit lost still.

I've thought a lot about this and I think it's not that hard to be happy... happiness can exist for a moment, an hour, a day... but real joy is something that isn't so easy to come by... I now know that I was fortunate to have many, many holidays where there was joy.  It's an easy time of year to be nostalgic for the days when you were young and the days leading up to Christmas were so full of childhood excitement and joy.

I still can't believe life could change in an instant.  I miss what could have been.  We all move forward without you in our daily lives and it's just so hard to accept the change.

Missing you everyday,
Love you more,
Mom